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We’ve all got friends in our lives that are nice people, but they always seem to be broke. They don’t have a dime to their name, and if you ask them why, they don’t have a clue. It never seems that they can figure out why they’re short on cash.
Today I want to look at a few reasons why broke people are broke, and why they’ll most likely continue that way (unless they make some major changes).
10 Reasons Why You’re Broke
Here are a few of the reasons why people find themselves without money.
- Their problems are never their fault: Broke people don’t like to take responsibility for their problems, they will often shift blame and say it’s someone else’s fault. They blame their friends, family and the government. They believe the old saying, “the little guy just can’t get ahead“.
- What’s a budget?: A lot of people who are broke find themselves that way because they have no idea where there money is going. They’ve never done a budget. Their money quickly disappears every month into an endless black hole of large and small expenses.
- They don’t plan for the future. Today is all that matters: Money doesn’t stick around for future uses because it is all spent today. Saving and planning for the future are foreign concepts.
- Money gets spent on things that aren’t needed: We’ve all got those friends who just can’t help themselves – they already have a couch, but they find a design they like better and buy it – even though they can’t afford it. They have a phone, but decide to buy the newest greatest Iphone.
- Keeping up with the neighbors: Far too often people will buy a house in a neighborhood they can’t afford, and then they end up spending even more money on the other lifestyle accessories to keep up with the Joneses. They end up buying a nicer car, a boat, expensive landscaping, etc. One bad spending decision begets another.
- You paid what?: Broke people far too often don’t know how to find a good deal and even more often don’t negotiate to get a better deal. Why pay more than you have to?
- Credit is their best friend: They don’t practice delayed gratification, and they would never save for something they want. Just put it on the credit card until it’s maxed! We’ll figure out how to pay it some other time!
- They rely on others to get them out of trouble : We’ve probably all know someone who always ends up going to their parents, family or friends to help them pay for one of their debts. They get in debt up to their ears, and then when they can’t pay for it, it’s back to mommy and daddy’s house to beg for money.
- Why budget for the future when I can have fun today: They don’t like to plan ahead for tomorrow because it seems so far away. Instead, let’s eat drink and be merry today!
- They are all about appearances: Broke people often are broke because they would rather have others think they are doing well, or are wealthy, than actually do the hard work of actually finding a way to be wealthy. The result? They spend a bunch of money on things they don’t need in order to appear like they’ve got power and influence.
Obviously this list of things that broke people do isn’t exhaustive, but it is more of a way to get people thinking about how and why they’re making the decisions about their money that they are. If you can catch nip some of these behaviors in the bud, you’ll be much better off for it.
Have you ever engaged in any of these behaviors? Do you have a broke friend or family member that just can’t seem to get out of a hole? Tell us about it in the comments!
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The “Keeping up with the Joneses” mentality drives me nuts. We’re relatively-young newlyweds in the first year of our mortgage, so there’s no way we’re going to “compete” with our neighbors — and that’s all right with me. Let ‘em laugh at my 6-year-old car in my driveway (that’s been paid off for 2 1/2 years). Our property is neat and clean, and that’s all that matters to me.
Buying a couch without a solid plan on how to pay for it silly enough, but having children (on purpose) with no job or plan on raising them and paying for them, drives me crazy.
Agreed, Rainy. And good for you. I’ve always been somewhat of an underdog, and I’ve come to take pride in that role. While my neighbors can laugh when comparing their new truck to my 19-yr-old Volvo (runs just fine, thanks), guess which one of us will have quietly saved a small fortune and could buy a bigger house in cash.
I agree people never want to see to take responsibility for any of their actions. They spend impulsively, then when the creditors call they wonder what they did to deserve it.
I’ve always been happy living the simple life. My parents wanted to raise my brother and I in an environment where we would think we didn’t have a lot of money. We always cut coupons and bargain shopped for clothes. However, in times of emergency, my parents always had cash on hand and never had to use credit. Even when my dad lost his job, my parents had saved up enough money to support us for awhile.
My parents are a prime example of how it can be done.. and they taught my brother and I very well. They stressed the importance of education, and I went to community college. I went to a state school for my bachelor’s and had NO student loan debt (and I didn’t even use financial aid). My brother and I both have excellent credit and I’ve already started saving money for my future.
Great job! We need more people like you to get this country back on track!
I think another large one is looking to material things to bring fulfillment. We buy things – not because there is an immediate need – but because we think they will add something to our lives.
Also, many people will buy a house, because “that’s what adults are supposed to do”, or “it’s the next step for us”. But that doesn’t make any sense! Again, they don’t take an assessment of their lives and determine what is really a need versus a want – they just buy and chase this “American Dream” that doesn’t exist!
I think the credit trap is possibly the biggest reason here!!! I remember being given a small overdraft, so I went to the end of that….. They the bank increased it…. i went further in…. My poor mindset kept believing I would pay it off next month! Luckily I am better now!
I think that these are great reasons, but I think that you’re missing the number one culprit. “Their parents didn’t teach them.” Most people learn to budget, to take personal responsibility for their finances, to distinguish between wants vs. needs or not, at an early age from their parents. Unfortunately, most parents are uncomfortable with their own finances and are failing to teach their students critical financial-life skills.
I’m actually building software that leverages parental involvement and social gaming to teach kids both solid personal finance skills and personal responsibility. I’d love to share more about what we’re doing if you are interested.
I’d love to see it when you’re done. I teach grade 5. If you ever need to test it out…
-Scott
My favorite axiom from my uncle:
“You’ll never get wealthy working for someone else”.
I’ve owned 4 businesses in my life, and while some did well, some did not. But I definitely learned from those experiences.
But the one I think I learned the best, is to leverage your time.
Last year, I had a real estate sales business, and was working 70-80 hours a week, and very rarely took a full day off. Then a friend showed me a business plan that blew me away. I gradually slowed my real estate work weeks, and grew my telecommunications work weeks. And after 9 months, I closed my real estate business for good. I no longer had to sell 2 or 3 houses a month to pay my bills. Because the things to sell are services that people use every day. Cell Phones, Internet, TV, people are never going to go without those. Best of all, my business brings it a small portion of those bills.
There is a better way than 40 hours a week. I’m proof of that. It took some hard work, but when EVERYONE uses the product you offer, it’s easy to find customers.
If you’d like more information, feel free to email me.
Sincerely,
Troy
GREAT-Each point was true. The inability to delay gratification can hurt not only one’s budget, but one’s relationships and waistline!